Growing up so fast! Daddy Tips at 6 months

Little miss Kaisa Judd is growing up so fast! She’s almost six months old and is rolling over with ease, sitting up by herself, and eating “solid” food. She likes carrots, barley, rice…and any “people” food that she gets. Kaisa absolutely loved the orange chicken sauce we had tonight at Grandma Judd’s house. The only thing she hasn’t liked is baby food peas. I haven’t tried them but Fiona says they are nasty. I’ll take her word.

Being a busy dad it’s tough to see how much I’m really missing without being home with Kaisa all day. I’ve come up with a list of things that I’ve done that make the time we have together quality time.

1. Be there when she wakes up and goes to sleep. I think we both feel better seeing each other as we begin and end our day.
2. One-on-one time. Get Mommy out of there and give her a much needed break. Even if it’s just Dad singing his silly songs she likes it. (Even if she doesn’t she can’t complain yet).
3. Talk to her. I’ve found when I talk to Kaisa she calms easier and seems to focus more. She’ll also learn more quickly the words I use. From changings to car rides, I always let her know what’s going on. When I treat her like she’s a real (and intelligent) person she will realize it quicker.
4. Let her explore. Even at 6 months I think she needs time to herself (just like I need time to myself). I hope I’m promoting independence and discovery when I sit her on the basement floor on top of a wide blanket, not just indulging in “Daddy time”, which lately has involved video games.
5. When I put her first I always feel better. Being a new parent is tough when you’re used to having so much “me time”. But it always seems more rewarding when I include Kaisa. Besides, she’s goes to bed at 8, how much more time do I really need?

If you have more ideas for me (and for Fiona) please leave a comment. We’re still so new at this and I know there’s at least a billion people who have done all this before.